Life talks

Hurt…

Many a times , oh wait .. hello, I hope you are doing well today.. Ok, back to typing .. Many a times the person(s) close to us will hurt us . And when this happens it’s more heartbreaking compared to that of a distant fellow because expectations are high .. Maybe it’s because you… Continue reading Hurt…

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Connecting 📶🔗……,

Me steadily going out on my own, just me,myself and I and enjoying my own company ain’t helping matters 🤗.. ... If you have the strength to read through this 3am thoughts of mine ...Thank you 🥺❤️🦋✨ As a child that was brought up indoors. Only went out on errands , to exercise (bicycle riding… Continue reading Connecting 📶🔗……,

Gist corner

Choosing your battles wisely…

Choose your battles they say, this is something I have heard over an over again as a child. As my parent will say some battles are for the Lord . And I would watch dramas or event and hear someone say “it’s not even worth fighting for”. Now what is worth fighting for depends on… Continue reading Choosing your battles wisely…

Write ups/ Poetry

Dad👨‍👧

Seeing these two on Friday made me miss my dad a lot .. Dad A man who can be all macho and strong but still tender and gentle A man who the world can’t contend with but still bend to the will of his seeds He does it all out of love He is not… Continue reading Dad👨‍👧

Write ups/ Poetry

Inhuman …

that_Idoma_geh🦋 Certain event and occurrences have made me ponder on the word “inhuman”. Because as humans there are certain things like “empathy” that’s should be exhibited but in these past few days. I have witnessed the opposite both from people I know at arms length and those I consider “close”. How do you ask human… Continue reading Inhuman …

Gist corner

Suicide Murder Mission?

March 24 2015, the Germanwing flight 9525 carrying 150 people, 144 passengers and 6 crew members was scheduled to land at Düsseldurf airport in Germany. The low cost carrier, owned by German airline Lufthansa , took off from Barcelona Elprat airport in Spain but never got to its scheduled destination. This was the first plane… Continue reading Suicide Murder Mission?

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Cray Cray

It is said that we all have a little bit of crazy in us and certain circumstances or situation brings this crazy out . Mental health should never be overlooked. When you notice certain traits in yourself or others close to you, always look for help . See a doctor . Remember not every “mad”… Continue reading Cray Cray

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Trauma Bonding

Trauma bonding, is a strong emotional attachment between an abused person and his or her abuser formed as a result of ongoing cycles of abuse in which intermittent reinforcement of reward and punishment creates a powerful emotional bond that is resistant to change. Here I have attached a well summarized piece on trauma bonding by… Continue reading Trauma Bonding